Where Did My Sister Go?
Explaining shared custody and blended family to a toddler, and the best parenting advice I've received so far.
Hi! Lots of new readers lately (yay!), so I thought I’d do a little vital check and a mini re-introduction:
Name: Sam (she/her)
Age: 39
Location: Los Angeles, California
Zodiac Sign: Double Virgo
Ethnicity: Filipino American
Occupation: DJ / Host
Household: Partner, not married. Daughter 2 years and 4 months, Step daughter 10 years old. 1 miniature Schnoodle doggy.
What is The Sam Report? It’s my notes from the field and lessons I’m learning as I navigate this chapter of deep adulting. Spreadsheets and reflections about pregnancy, postpartum, home organization, career, self-care.
I'm happy you’re here! Let’s get into this week’s reflection.
One Saturday morning, in the middle of building a block tower, my 2-year-old daughter thoughtfully looked up at me and and very plainly asked, “Where did my sister go?”